Finding the right toy can become very daunting, even to the most sex savvy.
Sorry men, this is for the girls.
Ladies, I can only say it’s much like going down the feminine product aisle. We all know what the product does and we all start out with the basics. Years ago, we had but a few items to choose from. Over time, the market has been flooded with items containing new bells, whistles and wings. We wade through the options and find our favorite item to be the one that works best of our body and personal needs. The same holds true with toys.
For stress relief, there’s nothing quite like the simple hum & pure pleasure of a good adult toy. Choosing the right vibrator can be anything but simple. With the multitude of sizes, shapes, colors, functions and materials available, it’s no surprise some women feel overwhelmed by the thought of having to select one.
Which vibrator will bring the most pleasure? The most pleasureful toy would be the one that ‘WORKS’ for you.
What if I find out I’m not a toy person or I don’t like it after i buy it? Everyone is a toy person. If you enjoy sex, you are a toy person, you maybe just have to find the one that floats your boat. The best toys are not always the most flashy & fancy. And with a little self honestly & exploration, you’ll find one that fits your wants & needs.
I don’t want to spend alot, price is a huge factor. Try clearance and sale items. Why not start with a “better” product at a price you can be comfortable with. In the constant and ever changing marketplace, more and more toys end on the clearance shelf as they are replaced by something newer. Just like with cars, new models and colors come out all the time, leaving the same toy in purple to be on the sale shelf as the new hot color replacing it is cherry red.
What I would suggest as a first toy would be something less intimidating, on the smaller side, in pretty colors and NOT anatomically correct.
Some good things to remember:
- Size is not everything. Start with something small.
- Motor, motor, motor. Cheap motors don’t last long and don’t always work as they should. Like sneakers, a good pair will fit and last stretching with your feet while a cheap pair might look OK, but will leave your feet cramped and unsatisfied.
- Price. Try clearance and sale items where you can get a better product at a price you are comfortable with.
- The Internet is a great place to shop and ask or email questions. If you are not comfortable walking into your local adult store, take full advantage of the anonymity of the Internet, and ask questions. Plus, items are typically shipped to you in a plain box. Can’t get any easier.
- Don’t put the task of buying a toy on your partner. It is a very personal choice that requires your input.
Finding the right first toy doesn’t have to be a stressful process.With just a basic understanding of your needs and an understanding of how certain vibrators can satisfy your needs, you’ll find one that will make you smile long into the future.
Happy Hunting.
Rebecca-a Rabbit lover, not a beginner toy
