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Hips and Curves.com  is a site I just found offering really nice, full figured, lingerie. It is such a large collection that there is something for everyone.

 The styles are very classic, comfortable, and are very figure flattering for a real shaped woman. I love the amount of corsets and bustiers offered to show off a woman’s figure, and they are designed to give support where it is most needed.

 The pricing is competitive, and  the look of the site is very positive and supportive, even in their choice of beautiful, volumptous models. There’s even a buyer’s guide section with tips for men and an in-depth sizing chart. There are also gift cards!!!!

I love sexy clothes, especially undergarments that make me feel good. I typically become frustrated looking for lingerie and other items that are not only comfortable, but that make me feel good.

 My original plan was to produce a line of delicates for women, that “real women” could wear. Yep, it can be done, but not a prices that regular women could afford. (The production costs are incredible), and that was one of my criteria.

It looks that I have found some really good alternatives, working with clothing manufacturers to “mix and match” items that could create an affordable, quality alternatives for women.  And the best part is that by seeing how the items blend together, it  allows women to shop in their favorite lingerie stores and help them choose items that could realistically work for them.

 I’m excited, and there’s lots to do. More details to come

I know there is a curiosity on the daily life of escorts and other adult industry workers. It’s part of the appeal of girl’s blogs. Does sexuality play a part in daily life? I can’t speak for anyone else,  just me. Maybe not sexuality, but sensuality does play a large part in my daily life. I do have a holistic approach to life, where everything melds together rather than compartmentalize.

 Like everything else in my life, the house itself is a giant art project. An older home with great bones, it is more than 60 years old (that’s old for Florida).  Cloaked by trees and lots of foliage, most people don’t realize there is a home on the property. It is my secret hidden jewel. Sadly, it can’t be rebuilt to it’s former glory. So it’s being modified to something more modern and artistic. Restoring this older home is a full time job in itself. I harbor this love/hate relationship with it. At times just wanting it done, and other times enjoying the process of researching, designing, and using uncommon building materials.

One example is the countertop in the kitchen. They are chocolate brown and made of concrete. They are sleek and regal to look at, yet cool and smooth as glass to the touch. A large delicate white orchid resides on the counter playing soft against hard, dark paired with light. I’m always wanting some sort of visual balance.

 It is only fitting that the objects within my home would be very sensual. Some are rather obvious, from the Klimt print above, to some nude sculpture. Others at first glance are more mundane, but to me very sensual. And most of it was done by artists I know, each sharing with me a little piece of themselves. When I did have time, I modeled nude for artist friends. And sometimes in trade, I get a drawing or painting of myself. (I guess there will be another blog on narcissism coming soon  LOL) 

Pears by PeteThe pear is another theme because to me it exudes a deep, understated sensuality and almost quiet allure. If I could be a fruit it would be a pear. Not only do I have paintings, but candles and trinkets in the shape of pears as well. A common symbol of femininity, fertility, and sensuality,  I find the voluptuous curve, or the coy blush on its rounded cheek appealing. Maybe it’s the firm, smooth flesh that feels nearly creamy against the tongue. You can’t fight the fact that the pear is a fruit that quietly demands your utter attention to its readiness; one day too early, and it’s not quite ready. Several hours too late, and the sweetest moment has passed.

The colors in the house were picked for their sensual nature. Calming and alluring, engaging yet peaceful. I’m very sensitive to color and it is one of my odd hobbies. As some people are good with numbers, I am good with color.

In some way, that I’m not quite sure, I even find escorting to be an artistic and creative endeavour. It’s part of the larger picture, where my life is a giant work of art, and each adventure is a different paint stroke on the canvas. Even a bad adventure would simply add a darker shadow tone to the canvas, making the better adventures and colors more vibrant.

300x60_a.jpgI’ve always been a voluptuous & curvy girl. And have always felt sexy in my skin no matter what my weight was. One of my frustrations has always been the limited choices of sexy lingerie for regular sized women. It seems that most women’s lingerie is really only made for thin shapes or ladies without curves. Plus sized items are starting to be carried by some stores, but they are typically  plain and doughty. They look like they were thrown together from bulk fabrics that are ugly and uncomfortable. They also would not accent what I would say are the average girl’s best features. Sure guys might like a girl with a little extra in the butt,  but not with some dental floss in it. What they usually seem to be lacking is giving a woman something comfortable that hides some flaws, but makes her feel sexy.

Unfortunately, it can add up to give women the message that if they can’t fit into the thonged lingerie available at most stores, they can’t be sexy. That is the furthest thing from the truth. Being sexy has nothing to do with how a woman physically appears, but how she carries herself.

 

It’s great to see a company like Secrets in Lace produce stylish, sexy outfits that women made for real women. Not just plus sizes, but all sizes. Their updated tap pants are very sexy, feel great, and can cover those areas we don’t like to show. And yes, men find them sexy.